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Navigating Authentic Sharing in the Digital Age
In the realm of social media, we've all encountered individuals who share an
overwhelming amount of personal details about their lives. Some posts leave us
thinking, "Did I really need to know that?" But why do we feel such a strong
inclination to overshare online?
As broken humans, we yearn for recognition and acceptance. We want the world
to see and like us. While emotional intimacy is a beautiful aspect of human
existence, it is best cultivated gradually, as trust and confidence deepen
between individuals. Navigating genuine sharing in the digital era is explored in this blog, focusing on authenticity and connection.
The Difference According to Dr. Brene Brown
Proverbs 11:2 (NIV) - "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom."
Dr. Brene Brown,
renowned for her research on shame and connectivity, distinguishes between
vulnerability and oversharing. She explains that vulnerability is not about
using personal disclosure as a manipulation tool but rather about genuine
connection.
Building Trust and Boundaries
Proverbs 25:9 (NIV) - "If you take your neighbor to court, do not betray another's confidence."
Vulnerability, as Dr. Brown emphasises, is based on mutual trust and requires
the establishment of boundaries. It is not about indiscriminate disclosure or
seeking attention and validation. Sharing our feelings and experiences should
be reserved for those who have earned the right to hear them, fostering a
sense of trust and deepening relationships.
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Honouring the Privilege of Listening
Proverbs 12:15 (NIV) - "The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice."
Dr. Brown urges us to consider who has truly earned the right to hear our
stories. Our experiences should be shared with individuals who can hold space
for our vulnerabilities and offer genuine love and support. It is a privilege
to have one or two trusted individuals in our lives who embrace our
imperfections, struggles, and strengths.
The Role of Purpose and Accountability
Proverbs 27:17 (NIV) - "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
As Christians, we must carefully consider when, what, where, how, and with
whom we share ourselves. Testimonies and confessions should not be misused to
create false connections or seek validation. Instead, we should share with a
clear purpose, allowing accountability to guide our discernment.
Conclusion
In the age of social media, where oversharing has become commonplace, it is
crucial for Christians to approach vulnerability with wisdom and purpose. As
Dr. Brene Brown highlights, true vulnerability is not about seeking
attention or validation but about fostering genuine connections and trust.
Let us remember that our worth and identity are rooted in God, not in the
opinions or reactions of others. By discerning when, what, where, how, and
with whom we share ourselves, we can navigate vulnerability in a way that
honors God and promotes genuine connection.
As we navigate the digital world, let us remember that authentic sharing is
a powerful tool when wielded with discernment, respect, and love. May our
words and actions reflect the grace and wisdom of Christ, leading to deeper
connections, mutual growth, and the fulfillment of God's purposes in our
lives.
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